I was having lunch with my college roommate, and she reached into her bag as we prepared to split the check. She pulled out a wallet and unzipped it, and I demanded to see it at once. It was buttery brown leather, with a zipper on three sides, and room for everything. Longer than usual… Continue reading The Best Gift
Goin’ to the Chapel
Our family hasn’t been to church in person since mid-March. This is mostly about COVID, but partly about me and my issues. Nothing makes me want to quit church forever like a presidential election year. 2020 is a presidential election year on a high-octane cocktail of speed and steroids, and not going this year has… Continue reading Goin’ to the Chapel
Pillows
My current decorating strategy, as anyone who has visited the house knows, is just to hang on until the children move out, and then start over. I don't see much point in buying nice furniture that is going to suffer various protracted indignities, and I gave up on the living room carpet long ago. But… Continue reading Pillows
The Problem with Zucchini
It’s zucchini season. We had the first of the harvest for supper with some potatoes and beef. A friend of mine has a garden for the first time this year, and she sent me a picture of four zucchini and two yellow squash and said, “This is the first day. Why did no one WARN… Continue reading The Problem with Zucchini
This Is Hard
I had that conversation again. The one where someone pulls me aside, or sends me a private message, and says, "I'm so glad you said it. That thing I felt like I couldn't say." This time it was about social distancing, and being at home with kids while trying to work like normal (whatever THAT… Continue reading This Is Hard